I had to wrote a post before this month was over. I want to reflect on the January’s of past lol. You know what I am talking about. The beginning of the year when you made a promise for the rest of the year. You never seen it through. You left it feeling like a failure because your goals were unrealistic. So much pressure how were they ever attainable. Insanity to think this year you were going to actually stand by your word. You couldn’t commit and every year you did this lol. Leaving January sorry.

January, the month where you hear everyone talk about resolutions. Gym memberships go up. Everyone vows to get their life on track. All of January everyone is on their best behavior because maybe Santa didn’t give them what they asked for or they ate to much over the holidays. They blame the holidays for the extra pounds they gained instead of being honest and acknowledging that most of the weight gained was from the rest of the year not no little holidays!!! They blame the holidays for the reason they can’t get along with family. Lol. Let us be honest you were have issues with these people all year round.

I feel sad for January because it’s not really appreciated for what it truly is. It truly is a time to reflect and hibernate. I would call this month of lies lol due to everyone’s behavior. It’s not January’s fault that people cram all their desires of the year into 31days. I use to participate in this whole new year resolution thang but I learned to not wait until the beginning of the year to be better Me. Everyday is an opportunity to be a better you. I learned to use every second as an opportunity to correct my self. Ok ok ok let’s pause right here*** I am a wombman that means I have emotions, I am capable of loving, I get upset and I have fears. I am an evolving wombman. I am constantly growing learning. I choose to not just exist in this world. After a heated discussion I review over what made me so heated. I have learned that everyone does not see things the same way I do. I accept that.*** I want to be better for me. Better for my son and better for my loved ones. I understand that I am a representative of the life I lead and that’s why I am so careful when making decisions. My family is watching me.

Ok, so there are 12 months in the year and each day the sun rises where you are without fail. It maybe a cloudy gloomy day but the Sun is there behind it all. Still shinning and radiating. Doing what it was meant to do. Each day is a brand new start. Why wait until January to get your life in order? That is way to much pressure. Why take one giant leap when you can take consistent small steps. If you mess up on the giant leap you have to take a giant leap back. You don’t lose much ground on small steps.

Let’s just start with being honest daily with ourselves about the real issues. The real reasons we don’t have any female friends. The real reason you don’t get along with your family. The real reason your over weight. The real reason your alone. Once we do that then we can seek real solutions. Solutions that truly will work. Turn off that programming and take charge over your life. The answer is inside of you not Beyoncé and Jay-Z or Kim and Kanye.

I love January like I love mornings. It gives me another chance. Another opportunity to do things better. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Anytime is the best time to be a better you. Don’t wait for the perfect time.
I pray that this post touches your heart